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For parents, this is a gentle reminder of how small, consistent acts like setting out toys or leaving a note help children feel seen and anticipated.
By Ruman Baig Updated Nov. 13, 2025
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On a quiet evening in Birmingham, Alabama, Mark Gathof quietly arranges a small lineup of stuffed animals and toys by the front door. There’s Winnie the Pooh, Simba, Mickey Mouse, and Minnie (each positioned as if they’re eagerly awaiting the arrival of his granddaughter, Reeves). 
The ritual is simple, consistent, and deeply thoughtful: every Tuesday and Thursday, when Reeves visits her grandparents while her mom, Tanner, works, Poppy ensures she is met with a “welcome committee” that sparks instant joy.
The tradition caught the internet’s heart after Tanner shared a clip on TikTok (@tannntokkk), captioned “Grandparents rule the world”, showing her father’s nightly preparations. Over the video, the text overlay reads: “Late night finds but it’s my dad setting out my daughter’s toys to welcome her every time she comes over.” The clip, which has been viewed over 546,000 times, shows snapshots of each toy setup, a visual testament to anticipation, care, and a love that’s both deliberate and effortless.
Tanner first noticed the tradition through her father’s texts, each one accompanied by a photo of the carefully arranged toys.
“Every Tuesday and Thursday, Reeves goes over to my mom and dad’s house because I am a full-time working mom,” Tanner told Newsweek. “They happily take care of her and babysit on those days. She gets super excited each time she comes in, even though she has seen those same toys a million times. It’s the little things that mean the most, and he knows that this simple gesture will make her happy.”
For parents, this is a gentle reminder of how small, consistent acts like setting out toys or leaving a note help children feel seen and anticipated. These everyday rituals build emotional security, teach kids that they are valued, and create lasting memories that shape their sense of connection and belonging.
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Viewers were equally charmed. The video’s comment section, with hundreds of posts, included reflections like “Protect this man at all costs” and “It’s such a blessing to see your parents become grandparents,” showing a universal recognition of how quiet, consistent acts of love can resonate far beyond a single family.
Research from the Harvard Center on the Developing Child shows that children who experience supportive relationships and consistent, predictable routines are more likely to develop strong brain architecture and emotional security.
For kids like Reeves, knowing she will be greeted by her favorite toys not only sparks trust, anticipation, and the sense that she is valued and cared for. In households where grandparents or extended family are involved, these small, consistent rituals also help preserve family traditions and create lasting childhood memories.
In multigenerational households, such gestures serve as bridges across generations. Grandparents, through simple acts like the “welcome committee,” preserve family traditions, impart values of care, and create lasting memories that children carry into adulthood.
For Tanner, her father’s involvement is a continuation of a lifelong pattern. “He was the most-involved dad with me as a little girl, and he is the same way with my daughter,” she told Newsweek. “Anyone who knows my daughter knows that my dad is her favorite person. Every toddler has ‘their person,’ and my dad is the chosen one most of the time. She is always talking about her Poppy, and he will do anything to see her smile.”
The Gathofs’ family dynamic, with grandparents stepping in two days a week, illustrates how shared caregiving supports both parents and children. It’s a reminder that emotional security doesn’t always come from grand gestures; often, it’s the repetition, attention, and love embedded in the everyday moments.
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For parents and caregivers, the lesson is clear: small, intentional rituals matter. Whether it’s setting out toys, leaving a snack ready, or sending a surprise voice memo, these acts communicate that children are seen, anticipated, and cherished. And while not every parent has nearby grandparents, creative adaptations, like a video “welcome committee” or weekly surprise messages, can provide the same emotional reassurance.
In the end, being loved consistently, thoughtfully, and predictably shapes a child’s sense of security in ways that last far beyond the moment. 
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